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Are you thinking about your “next” big adventure?

November 26, 2019 by Amber Leave a Comment

Our principal at Wylie High, Virdie Montgomery, is pretty great. He is someone who reflects regularly, praises often, and is always up for a good prank. One of my favorite things he shares is his thoughts on Facebook. This was a post of his from this past week that just made me stop and think. Mediums like this make me thankful so that we all can grow and learn from his voice and varied experiences. We should all have someone like that in our lives.

This semester, my superintendent has started an “Achieving Leaders” Facebook group. Its goal is to connect and grow leaders, both inside our district and out. I truly think its the casual conversations, the opportunities to share our stories, where growth can most easily occur. Principals of varying levels have joined us, sharing strategies that are both relational and transformational. It is practical and easy to apply, as a leader or even as a future leader.

If you’re interested in joining our group and learning alongside us, the link to join is here. We had an episode where we asked people to reflect and think about their stories. Virdie was a guest, as well as our Assistant Supt of HR, Mr. Winn.  We asked to reflect and share on their stories…and think towards their ending and what it looks like professionally speaking. Virdie’s answer was powerful…so powerful that I teared up. He then went on to share it on Facebook and with permission, I’ve shared it below.

Living the Dream! I don’t know what your dream is or when your dream formed. All I know is that we are all on the journey to get there. I live the dream each day, live in the present and am consumed by the present. The dream is not something that is always just over the horizon. It is right now. There are times when the journey is at the beginning but that journey is a part of the dream. There are challenges on this journey and there is a path to the dream we all must go down. Today is the most important part of the dream and it happens every single day. I have vivid memories of when I was in elementary school of wanting to be a teacher someday. Everyone who had ever mattered to me outside of family was a teacher. They had influence and power over me. They molded the very way I think and perceive things. I loved them in a way that was revered. They weren’t my friends….they were above that. They made me work.

They pushed me and they encouraged me without even knowing they were doing it. I could feel it. Even if they were disappointed in me I knew and felt that they knew I could do what they were asking. Disappointment is powerful. Truly, if someone is disappointed in you …that means they expected you to do better. If they were never disappointed in you that to me meant they did not think I could get there anyway. We are a product of our past. I never want to disappoint those that matter to me because that is one high expectation and it takes work. I wanted to teach and the journey there was long and it was not easy. I was living the dream even then because again…the journey is a part of the dream. I take pride in the journey that finally got me there and then I found that the dream was just a continuation of that journey began a long time ago.

Today, I ask if you are living the dream? Where are you in the journey and are you enjoying the journey and overcoming the obstacles that limit or hinder the overall dream? Sometimes the dream changes course but the journey continues. I choose to live this dream daily and I never want to disappoint so I give my best. Sometimes my best is not good enough and yet it somehow gives me a reward because as flawed as I am…it is the best I have to give. That is all we can do and for sure all we can expect of those around us …especially kids. If they are giving their best, how can I ask more of them than I can of myself? I want their best and I will love them regardless of the outcome because that is what I need in my own journey. In my mind, this all makes sense …written? I just don’t know…but I am giving my best every single day on this journey and I am blessed to be living the dream that began a long time ago.

 

Wherever your season of life finds you right now, I hope you’re living your best life.

I hope you’re excited about your present and see it as exciting as your future…that’s what I think Virdie was speaking to. I teared up when he said he couldn’t imagine his future being better than where he was right now. That’s how I want to live…knowing that where I am, personally and professionally, is fulfilling and makes me excited to wake up each day. Once you’ve joined the group, here’s the one I’m talking about, 🙂 

Join us over on “Achieving Leaders”. You’ll learn something each week…and we’ll all grow together!

Thoughtfully, thankfully &

 

 

 

 

 

PS: !!!

The Leadership Vault Reopens Dec. 1st!

Don’t miss your last chance this year to join over our inaugural 100 principals working together to level-up their leadership. We will reopen for a short period to welcome new members starting December 1st. Join the waitlist to get notified we are open before anyone!

 

Filed Under: Leadership, Principal Tagged With: #admin, #beintentional, #vision, AmberTeamann

Self care for principals…it should be a priority!

October 27, 2019 by Amber 1 Comment

We’re closing out October. You know…the month with 5,000 events and what feels like just as many days? The first armpit of the school year?

That October.

Recognizing that self care is probably at the bottom of your to do list (as it was originally on mine!) I decided I needed a way to make it a priority! Carving out time for yourself, whether you are a teacher or a leader, is crucial. We’re about to enter TWO important busy months where the focus is easily on those around us. The cliche line of not being able to pour from an empty bucket is a true one, friends. It’s important to remember that you need to take care of you, because honestly, as the leader, that’s not on the tip tops of your coworker’s minds. You make the big bucks remember? You’re usually the one care for those all around you!

My principal BFF Melinda Miller and I included a chapter in “Lead with Appreciation”How can you #LeadWithAppreciation? just on self-care. You have the seasonal ups and downs that our teachers do as well. The intentionality of taking care of yourself is just as relevant for you as it is for your staff/students. Self care isn’t just a trendy topic when it comes to SEL and our staff emotional well being. Burnout is a REAL thing. The pressure of our position is a REAL thing. 

“Self love is asking yourself what you need – every day – and then making sure you receive it.” – Unknown

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Sounds cute and fun, right? The last thing I have time for in the upcoming months is to add one more thing to my todo list, much less something that requires energy and effort to think and plan, right? But…putting ourselves first IS a necessity. And although our lives might seem crazy hectic enough, taking the time to care for ourself is going to aid in the effectiveness of you helping others. Even if it’s something as simple as…one of these ideas! I’ve created a 30 day “Principal Priority” idea checklist that I will be using in November. There are 30 days and here are 30 ideas! Most are free and easy…and all with the idea that you, admin, principal, or leaders of tiny humans, need to take a few minutes each day just for yourself.

 

How can you make self care a priority this month?

(Download your PDF to check off with me here!)

 

Is it possible to do a great job…in all the places and in all the ways- without sacrificing who we are or our sanity? I would certainly hope so. I do know, for a fact, that when I am able to carve out time to do things on the weekends, that I just do for the enjoyment of doing them, that Monday rolling around isn’t nearly as stressful. Self care can be as simple as adopting the mindset that within each day there should be something that makes your physical or mental health a priority. Not that means we can’t have ambitions! (Hello, #ennegram3 here!) It means that we realize for every yes we say to others, we potentially are saying no to ourselves and those who matter. We want to be the yes girl, or the I can do it all guy…but the reality is for the long term that is unrealistic.

Burnout can lead to poor decision making, stretched relationships, and tense campus culture. Nobody wants to work with (or for!) someone who forgets what it means to put themselves first. Being mindful of putting yourself first is the first step in trying to achieve that elusive balance we all seek!

Put YOU on your to-do list!

Allow yourself to put YOU on the todo list. I purposely didn’t pick specific “days” on that above chart because some of these ideas are perfect for the weekends and some are great for a random Monday where you need a smile.  Bottom line, we all need to make time to care for ourselves. Being able to do little things for ourselves is going to improve everything from our social interactions to our productivity. And which of those don’t we all need?

It’s ok to love yourself enough to try and balance out meeting the needs of those around you with your needs.

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That doesn’t make you selfish, it makes you self aware!

 

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PS: Melinda Miller and I put a whole chapter on self care in our recent book “Lead with Appreciation”, if you’re looking for more ideas and context, you can buy your copy here!

Filed Under: #leadwithappreciation, Campus ideas, Leadership, Principal Tagged With: #selfcare, AmberTeamann, freebie

5 ways to make your campus more inclusive as a leader

October 7, 2019 by Amber Leave a Comment

I am privileged enough to work at a campus that is incredibly diverse. From ethnicity to abilities, we are surrounded by Wolves that aren’t all the same. While that is ALWAYS true of all our campuses, I am fortunate enough to have two self contained classrooms that make my heart so happy. In addition, each year, I find myself blessed with Wolves who challenge the ways we have done things and make me more aware of ways I can do better by these babies I am entrusted with each day. It’s always been important to me that my self contained classrooms, those with students with special needs, feel as if they are just as much of a part of our campus family as the other classrooms. I spend time in those classrooms, and give the same feedback as I do with other teachers, and take every chance to share out the great things I see in their rooms like I would a general education classroom. I send positive cards to each of those Wolves, celebrating things that have gone well…and I have even been known to spend some time out at recess, coming when they say come, and going when they say GO.

 

 

Are they connected with appropriate grade level peers?

Beyond during the typical inclusion or lunch/PACK time…we make sure that our families are included with a partner teacher and are on their email list. (They can always opt out, but no one ever has!) They get the newsletters, the contacts, the communication , the curriculum blurbs, etc. They are a part of the classroom Facebook pages. When there are events, I want them to feel just as included in grade level activities and invitations. Programs, socials, etc…they are always invited and we make sure they are able to participate to the best of their abilities. Sometimes, even though something shared isn’t as developmentally appropriate, families can adapt and discuss at home.

Where can you find these friends in your yearbooks?

In addition to listing these students within their class pages for their self contained class & teacher, we also include them with their inclusion class. These are the peers that they interact with throughout the day, during their inclusion , lunch, & recess. They are just as much a part of that room as they are of the other. When they flip through that yearbook later, I want them to see themselves within BOTH groups of friends. We make sure collages also include all the friends…because there are plenty of opportunities to get candid shots of their interactions, if you’re looking for them.

Where do they sit during programs?

When at all possible, we allow students to sit with their inclusion class. Again, an opportunity to socialize with their peers…even if its just sitting and enjoying a program or campus pep rally. Typically, they have a “buddy” a student with a big ol’heart that wants them to sit with them and makes sure they are enjoying them self. They find them at recess and invite them to sit by them at lunch. These are the Wolves that are going to change the world, I have no doubt. Watching these friendships develop is one of the very best parts of my job.

How do you plan their parties/field trips?

We make sure that the self contained classrooms have separate parties scheduled. One with daily friends, with a craft and snack that is appropriate to each student, but we also make sure they have the chance to attend their grade level party. If this means I need to provide additional coverage, I do that. If more bodies are needed on field trips, I find them. It definitely means I consider ALL classrooms when making scheduling decisions, instead of just gen ed ones. We have students who leave for therapies, and I take that into consideration when looking to schedule #allthethings.

How do you communicate your messages and values with your families?

We share a LOT via social media. I like a good font, a fun clip art…and LOVE having props that go with all the crazy fun elementary things we do. We intentionally choose images that represent ALL our friends. From diversity to special needs, it speaks to our campus when they see images or shares that resonate with their ethnicity, culture, or faith. We seek out and include as many as can. Whether this is holiday related or just a regular ol’message…we try to make it as diverse as possible. Seek out parents with different faiths, ask how you can celebrate their culture. Ask what matters to them and be intentional when you reach out and invite them to participate with your campus. It will make you all better! #leadwithappreciation

Principal confession: I got this wrong this year in a pretty big way. Despite making sure communications, posters, flyers, etc. are diverse, we created a photo op of a cowboy/cowgirl that students could take pictures inside of, with a fun face cut out. They were REALLY cute. They were also both very fair skinned/blonde haired. What a missed opportunity for my Wolves with dark hair and dark skin! We could have created one more with a different hairstyle/color that could have included many more of my students. Do I have to make one for every ethnicity we have? No, but it is pretty important to at least give options when I can. This was an easy add that I just missed.  I don’t want them to feel like they have to misappropriate who they are, just to include themselves in the themed fun we have.


If nothing else, please take away that decisions are made on the individual-ness of each student.

There’s no “one size fits all” decision.

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It’s not made on IQ or disability or placement. We don’t do “these things” for student in wheelchairs or for students with Down Syndrome. I do what Landree needs or what Levi needs. It’s made on whats appropriate, whats most fun, and what each student deserves for us to make happen, no matter what. Sometimes that requires additional staffing, or support from the office, or extra $$$ to support funds and ideas. I am the voice that says YES, how can we instead of YES, but how even could we…this all starts with the principal, or someone asking the principal. 🙂

Making sure I have open lines of communication with my families, ALL my families, means they reach out when they see something that they feel could be handled in a more inclusive and positive manner. It’s always done with respect and the best interest of our Wolves. That can be attributed, I hope, to the fact that I listen when they talk. I don’t take umbrage to the fact that I have been doing something WRONG or that albeit, unintentionally, has left their wolf out. These convos can HURT, but I am always a better leader (and person.) afterwards. All of the things above, that we now do as a norm, are a direct result of mommas (and daddies!) who make me do better, who hold me accountable for doing everything I can to make sure ALL students are Whitt Wolves, to the fullest extent possibly.

Even if they don’t directly apply to the students you have now, I hope you see something that resonates and could make your whole campus feel more included.

 

 

Thinkingly &

 

Filed Under: Leadership Tagged With: #beintentional, #edchat, #students, AmberTeamann

How will you respond to a tough month?

October 3, 2019 by Amber Leave a Comment

Dr. Maricela Helm is a principal peer of mine here in Wylie ISD. Each week we send each other our staff newsletters. It’s not for accountability purposes, or to show off, but because we each value the jump start we give each other. (We also try to meet once a month for lunch as a “mastermind” where we try to solve all the problems of the world.) I am super appreciative of her, her time, and her sharing!

I asked if I could share this months lesson blurb she sent to her staff because I thought it was so powerful.

It’s who we are.

Did you know the picture in the staff bathroom is of Prairie Chapel Ranch, the retreat home of President Bush and First Lady Laura Bush? I mean why put just any ol’ farmhouse picture in there?

Did you know the paper butterflies that adorn the front stairwell have the names of all 550 of our inaugural Eagles printed on their wings? Because when possible, we will work to make every action we take and decision we make just a little more special.

I do feel we are a special district and I know we are a special school. I have to be honest, In challenging situations I have thought to myself before – how might a typical or average school respond, now, how will we respond ?

In most cases we unite, we rise above, but sometimes in the most challenging situations even the best can slip. My friend Shari Halpin shared this as ‘admiring the problem’.

So, when we admire a problem, we give the problem itself time and attention: talking about it, sharing it, giving our time to looking at it like it as something we can only view from afar.

But cultivating a solution requires entering into the relationships and saying -“I have two choices: I can sit around talking about this problem, gossiping and complaining to others, making things even more difficult or I can engage in the relationships around me to create solutions.”

So the next time you hear the beginnings of a pot stirring… how did this get to be such a big problem?” or “Why do we always come back to this problem?” – – shake it up. Stop admiring the problem

Talking about problems like this in a team can be a way to bond — it’s you together identifying a common enemy. If you’re a team leader, it can be tempting when your teams have discussions like this, because uniting against a common problem is a quick way for a group of people to rally together.

However, a group of people discussing a problem does not make it any better. In fact, if nothing happens as a result of that discussion, all you’ve done is waste time. You’ve admired the problem.

What it takes to move past that is for someone to speak up and work to make it better.

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 That takes energy, courage commitment and follow through.

“So, what are we going to do about it?”

Is this problem something that you’re going to work to resolve, or are you going on to focus on the things that you can improve?

Instead of spending time bonding around a problem that you’re not going to solve, it’s more productive to unite around a common purpose.

Uniting around a common purpose… THAT’S who we are. We lift each other up. We help each other. That’s why I love our school family.

October can be a tough month… will it be for us? How will we respond?

 

As we head into what traditionally can be a challenging month, I hope that you are able to take some deep breaths and remember that we’re all in this together!

 

Thinking’ly &

 

 

 

Filed Under: Leadership, Principal Tagged With: #admin, #beintentional, AmberTeamann

Do you even blog any more?? #leadLAP #LeadWithAppreciation

September 14, 2019 by Amber 1 Comment

Bless it.

 

I do, I promise.

 

Mostly though? I blog in my head. I think through the title, the content, and action takeaways…but the actual GET TO THE BLOG part is where it all falls apart!!

HA! again…bless it.

 

Where’ve I been?

  • Starting YEAR 5 as principal and partner with our amazing team
  • Trying to handle being the MOM OF A SENIOR (God help us all.)
  • Celebrating a certain campus that achieved 4 (YES, 4!!! distinction designations from the state of Texas!
  • Celebrating a certain campus that earned the highest (yes, highest!) academic gains in the past four years, and was at the TOP of our district!
(Why does that matter? When I try real hard not to focus on test scores or standardized testing? B/C it’s the system in which I work and am evaluated. It also represents the HARD WORK my teachers and Wolves put in and how much they grew in our academic year.

I can be sunshiney and blog all the darn time, but if my students aren’t growing? aren’t learning? what kinda principal am I actually?

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  • Feverishly working on “The Leadership Vault”, a subscription site for leaders designed to meet the needs and contribute to leaders from all over!

 

Annnnnnnnnd, finally, something else that has been taking up my time…another reason I have been M.I.A…… My principal BFF, Melinda Miller, and I have been working hard this summer to get this published so it can get in your hands!


Publish date should be in October…but I will keep you posted! We are super excited about this book…it’s the culmination of the Facebook groups and ideas shared over the past three years in our Staff Appreciation and Morale Facebook group. More on that soon!!

 

 

All this to say, I am here. I am principaling. And I hope all is well in your world too!

 

 

 

 

Amber

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