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Self care for principals…it should be a priority!

October 27, 2019 by Amber 1 Comment

We’re closing out October. You know…the month with 5,000 events and what feels like just as many days? The first armpit of the school year?

That October.

Recognizing that self care is probably at the bottom of your to do list (as it was originally on mine!) I decided I needed a way to make it a priority! Carving out time for yourself, whether you are a teacher or a leader, is crucial. We’re about to enter TWO important busy months where the focus is easily on those around us. The cliche line of not being able to pour from an empty bucket is a true one, friends. It’s important to remember that you need to take care of you, because honestly, as the leader, that’s not on the tip tops of your coworker’s minds. You make the big bucks remember? You’re usually the one care for those all around you!

My principal BFF Melinda Miller and I included a chapter in “Lead with Appreciation”How can you #LeadWithAppreciation? just on self-care. You have the seasonal ups and downs that our teachers do as well. The intentionality of taking care of yourself is just as relevant for you as it is for your staff/students. Self care isn’t just a trendy topic when it comes to SEL and our staff emotional well being. Burnout is a REAL thing. The pressure of our position is a REAL thing. 

“Self love is asking yourself what you need – every day – and then making sure you receive it.” – Unknown

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Sounds cute and fun, right? The last thing I have time for in the upcoming months is to add one more thing to my todo list, much less something that requires energy and effort to think and plan, right? But…putting ourselves first IS a necessity. And although our lives might seem crazy hectic enough, taking the time to care for ourself is going to aid in the effectiveness of you helping others. Even if it’s something as simple as…one of these ideas! I’ve created a 30 day “Principal Priority” idea checklist that I will be using in November. There are 30 days and here are 30 ideas! Most are free and easy…and all with the idea that you, admin, principal, or leaders of tiny humans, need to take a few minutes each day just for yourself.

 

How can you make self care a priority this month?

(Download your PDF to check off with me here!)

 

Is it possible to do a great job…in all the places and in all the ways- without sacrificing who we are or our sanity? I would certainly hope so. I do know, for a fact, that when I am able to carve out time to do things on the weekends, that I just do for the enjoyment of doing them, that Monday rolling around isn’t nearly as stressful. Self care can be as simple as adopting the mindset that within each day there should be something that makes your physical or mental health a priority. Not that means we can’t have ambitions! (Hello, #ennegram3 here!) It means that we realize for every yes we say to others, we potentially are saying no to ourselves and those who matter. We want to be the yes girl, or the I can do it all guy…but the reality is for the long term that is unrealistic.

Burnout can lead to poor decision making, stretched relationships, and tense campus culture. Nobody wants to work with (or for!) someone who forgets what it means to put themselves first. Being mindful of putting yourself first is the first step in trying to achieve that elusive balance we all seek!

Put YOU on your to-do list!

Allow yourself to put YOU on the todo list. I purposely didn’t pick specific “days” on that above chart because some of these ideas are perfect for the weekends and some are great for a random Monday where you need a smile.  Bottom line, we all need to make time to care for ourselves. Being able to do little things for ourselves is going to improve everything from our social interactions to our productivity. And which of those don’t we all need?

It’s ok to love yourself enough to try and balance out meeting the needs of those around you with your needs.

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That doesn’t make you selfish, it makes you self aware!

 

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PS: Melinda Miller and I put a whole chapter on self care in our recent book “Lead with Appreciation”, if you’re looking for more ideas and context, you can buy your copy here!

Filed Under: #leadwithappreciation, Campus ideas, Leadership, Principal Tagged With: #selfcare, AmberTeamann, freebie

Ripples of Leadership: who are you encouraging to grow past you?

October 24, 2019 by Amber 2 Comments

When you dip your toe in the lake….say while you’re sitting on a boat…but it’s too cold to get ALL the way in, even in Texas in October…you can see the lil’ripples you make on the surface.

Depending on the size of the body of the water you’re in, you can watch the ripples until they fade away, or as they bounce off the tube and come back to you.

Leadership reminds me daily that there are people watching me, that I want to encourage. That I want to grow. That I want to be whatever it is they want to be when they want to be it. Sometimes it’s an administrative position, sometimes it’s in curriculum. Sometimes its just being stronger at _______ or moving to _________ position. Sometimes they need to hear, “Hey, you’d be FANTASTIC at ________.” Or maybe “I have a skill set in _______,  and can help you.” Maybe it’s “My friend Angela is incredible at ______, let me connect you to her.”

I think it’s my responsibility to not just stick my toe in the leadership waters, but to cannonball in and help my people where I can.

I want big ripples.  I want ripples that last long after I’ve gone. When you treat every interaction and conversation as one that could have a ripple effect, you start to be more conscious of your word choice.

And that’s a good thing.

 

I hope you’re cannonball’ing in this week.

 

Filed Under: Organization Tagged With: #beintentional, AmberTeamann

October wearing you out? Here’s a fun freebie to encourage!

October 21, 2019 by Amber 1 Comment

Is it me, or is October 5,000 days long?

Feels like it, I’m telling ya!

 

Parent conferences, expectations setting in, data, assessments…feels like there is a little bit of everything we do, crammed into this month. There’s a reason we call this the first armpit of the school year. It’s when the honeymoon is over and our reality has set in. Thanksgiving seems really far away, and it’s all crashing down around us.

Just in case your team needs a boost like I feel like mine might, here’s an easy way to brighten a day. I’m throwing this into mailboxes as hopefully an acknowledgment that not only am I feeling it too but that there is an end in sight!

 

Attach it to a chapstick, and there ya go! Packs are cheap at the Walmart, or you can order from Amazon.

 

Download your copy here!

(Chapstick can be ordered from Amazon in bulk here!)

 

 

10 more days…we can do this!

 

Paddling &

Filed Under: #leadwithappreciation Tagged With: #admin, AmberTeamann

How can you #LeadWithAppreciation?

October 16, 2019 by Amber Leave a Comment

Oh friends. It’s officially been a year since Melinda Miller and I signed our contract with Dave Burgess Publishing and committed to sharing our message with whoever wanted to listen.

It was a year of writing, rereading, and more writing.

I opened a HUGE BOX OF BOOKS WITH MY NAME ON THEM TODAY and it all became worthwhile!

It was a pretty surreal feeling.

 

Our amazon blurb:

Make Your Campus a Place Where People Want to Work

Positive recognition and appreciation can transform your school from a place where people have to work into one where they want to work and enjoy bringing their best every day. And that transformation starts with the leader!

Your staff pours time and energy into learners every single day. As a busy PIRATE leader, you know that even the best crews need the direction of a great captain. But what does that look like? And how can you provide meaningful recognition and encouragement when your schedule is full and your budget is limited?

 

You can order your copy here, Lead with Appreciation: Fostering a Culture of Gratitude.

 

As a book bonus, take a selfie with your copy and tag either Melinda or I on any form of social media you’re connected to us on, we’ll send you a fantastic book bonus! Fab February is an idea I’ve talked about here and is a month we spend a chunk of time on in the book. When you buy a copy of Lead with Appreciation: Fostering a Culture of Gratitude, you’ll get a “Book Bonus”  specifically created to help you and your staff kick-off Fabulous February. These ideas are designed to make the month of February more fun than exhausting!

What’s Included:

  •  4 different calendars
    • Wonderful Wednesdays: Maybe Wednesdays are the best days of the week for your staff. Add just enough to get past hump day.
    • Fabulous Foodie Fridays in February: End the week with “snackie snacks” as I would say!
    • Fabulous February OOTD! (Outfit Of The Day.) Give your staff a break from official work clothes.
    • Thirsty Thursdays in February. This is a drink themed week that can be as easy as four water bars or Sonic Happy Hour breaks.
  • Social Media Images
    • Editable images (with examples)
    • Ready to use images

 

We can’t wait for you to read and hopefully LOVE this resource!

 

Appreciatively and

Filed Under: #leadwithappreciation Tagged With: #leadwithappreciation, AmberTeamann

5 ways to make your campus more inclusive as a leader

October 7, 2019 by Amber Leave a Comment

I am privileged enough to work at a campus that is incredibly diverse. From ethnicity to abilities, we are surrounded by Wolves that aren’t all the same. While that is ALWAYS true of all our campuses, I am fortunate enough to have two self contained classrooms that make my heart so happy. In addition, each year, I find myself blessed with Wolves who challenge the ways we have done things and make me more aware of ways I can do better by these babies I am entrusted with each day. It’s always been important to me that my self contained classrooms, those with students with special needs, feel as if they are just as much of a part of our campus family as the other classrooms. I spend time in those classrooms, and give the same feedback as I do with other teachers, and take every chance to share out the great things I see in their rooms like I would a general education classroom. I send positive cards to each of those Wolves, celebrating things that have gone well…and I have even been known to spend some time out at recess, coming when they say come, and going when they say GO.

 

 

Are they connected with appropriate grade level peers?

Beyond during the typical inclusion or lunch/PACK time…we make sure that our families are included with a partner teacher and are on their email list. (They can always opt out, but no one ever has!) They get the newsletters, the contacts, the communication , the curriculum blurbs, etc. They are a part of the classroom Facebook pages. When there are events, I want them to feel just as included in grade level activities and invitations. Programs, socials, etc…they are always invited and we make sure they are able to participate to the best of their abilities. Sometimes, even though something shared isn’t as developmentally appropriate, families can adapt and discuss at home.

Where can you find these friends in your yearbooks?

In addition to listing these students within their class pages for their self contained class & teacher, we also include them with their inclusion class. These are the peers that they interact with throughout the day, during their inclusion , lunch, & recess. They are just as much a part of that room as they are of the other. When they flip through that yearbook later, I want them to see themselves within BOTH groups of friends. We make sure collages also include all the friends…because there are plenty of opportunities to get candid shots of their interactions, if you’re looking for them.

Where do they sit during programs?

When at all possible, we allow students to sit with their inclusion class. Again, an opportunity to socialize with their peers…even if its just sitting and enjoying a program or campus pep rally. Typically, they have a “buddy” a student with a big ol’heart that wants them to sit with them and makes sure they are enjoying them self. They find them at recess and invite them to sit by them at lunch. These are the Wolves that are going to change the world, I have no doubt. Watching these friendships develop is one of the very best parts of my job.

How do you plan their parties/field trips?

We make sure that the self contained classrooms have separate parties scheduled. One with daily friends, with a craft and snack that is appropriate to each student, but we also make sure they have the chance to attend their grade level party. If this means I need to provide additional coverage, I do that. If more bodies are needed on field trips, I find them. It definitely means I consider ALL classrooms when making scheduling decisions, instead of just gen ed ones. We have students who leave for therapies, and I take that into consideration when looking to schedule #allthethings.

How do you communicate your messages and values with your families?

We share a LOT via social media. I like a good font, a fun clip art…and LOVE having props that go with all the crazy fun elementary things we do. We intentionally choose images that represent ALL our friends. From diversity to special needs, it speaks to our campus when they see images or shares that resonate with their ethnicity, culture, or faith. We seek out and include as many as can. Whether this is holiday related or just a regular ol’message…we try to make it as diverse as possible. Seek out parents with different faiths, ask how you can celebrate their culture. Ask what matters to them and be intentional when you reach out and invite them to participate with your campus. It will make you all better! #leadwithappreciation

Principal confession: I got this wrong this year in a pretty big way. Despite making sure communications, posters, flyers, etc. are diverse, we created a photo op of a cowboy/cowgirl that students could take pictures inside of, with a fun face cut out. They were REALLY cute. They were also both very fair skinned/blonde haired. What a missed opportunity for my Wolves with dark hair and dark skin! We could have created one more with a different hairstyle/color that could have included many more of my students. Do I have to make one for every ethnicity we have? No, but it is pretty important to at least give options when I can. This was an easy add that I just missed.  I don’t want them to feel like they have to misappropriate who they are, just to include themselves in the themed fun we have.


If nothing else, please take away that decisions are made on the individual-ness of each student.

There’s no “one size fits all” decision.

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It’s not made on IQ or disability or placement. We don’t do “these things” for student in wheelchairs or for students with Down Syndrome. I do what Landree needs or what Levi needs. It’s made on whats appropriate, whats most fun, and what each student deserves for us to make happen, no matter what. Sometimes that requires additional staffing, or support from the office, or extra $$$ to support funds and ideas. I am the voice that says YES, how can we instead of YES, but how even could we…this all starts with the principal, or someone asking the principal. 🙂

Making sure I have open lines of communication with my families, ALL my families, means they reach out when they see something that they feel could be handled in a more inclusive and positive manner. It’s always done with respect and the best interest of our Wolves. That can be attributed, I hope, to the fact that I listen when they talk. I don’t take umbrage to the fact that I have been doing something WRONG or that albeit, unintentionally, has left their wolf out. These convos can HURT, but I am always a better leader (and person.) afterwards. All of the things above, that we now do as a norm, are a direct result of mommas (and daddies!) who make me do better, who hold me accountable for doing everything I can to make sure ALL students are Whitt Wolves, to the fullest extent possibly.

Even if they don’t directly apply to the students you have now, I hope you see something that resonates and could make your whole campus feel more included.

 

 

Thinkingly &

 

Filed Under: Leadership Tagged With: #beintentional, #edchat, #students, AmberTeamann

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